A lack of male involvement leads to abusive relationship.

Having both parents in children lives is very important because one parent can not do everything on their own. It is also important because the other parent could be missing out on the child's life and once you missed out on your child life it will be hard to make up the amount of time you missed. Missing out on your child life can have a hughe impact on your child life, they may feel that you don't care or love them.

" What seems  clear is that children growing up without their father in the home face an increased risk of developing significant problems. This does not mean that all childern who grow up in the fatherless homes will encounter problems. Indeed, many of them will do just fine. But research indicates that fatherless children face more obstacles than those who who grow up with both parents, and are at greater risk for a host of developmental problems. (www.cyep.org). This shows the importance of having both parents in children's lives. It also shows that those who grow up without a father ecounter problems that will hurt and stay with them for the rest of their lives. They will end up in abusive relationship or end up being abusive themselves.

Fatherlessness is not only happening in America, but it is also happening all around the world and it is becoming an international problem. Most girls who lives without a father suffers a lot, especially when in a relationship with a guy. This is because they are not aware of how guys are supposed to treat them and what they should do if in an abusive relationship. "Sometimes, these girls are especially prone to abuse or victimization because they are so "loved starved" that they tolerate relationships with poor boundaries." (www.insightnews.com).  This qoute is saying that girls need their father in their lives to teach them how to be in a good relationship as to where their partners won't abuse them or if their partners do they can report it to their fathers and they can help them. Girls not having their fathers present in their lives can lead them to fall for the wrong guy, they need their fathers to protect them, not that their mothers can't do that but in a way that the mother cant. What I mean by this is that mothers are important too, but a father would know how to go about the situation since he's a guy and knows how they act.